Foreplay

I don't think men realize the power of foreplay; how wet and excited they can make their partner just by having a little patience. Rub her a little, tease her a little, and you'll have her begging to be fucked. A few kisses and nibbles DO NOT equal foreplay. It usually takes some time and effort to get her hot and bothered. The key to successfully using foreplay to your advantage is understanding that it is a mental game.

Once you decide to initiate sex, do not let your partner know. Think of this as a game, where the element of surprise is your best weapon. Find her and begin a conversation. Make it light; as far away from the topic of sex as possible. While she's talking, find ways to touch and caress her body without making it seem as though you aren't listening. If she makes a joke, gently rub her thigh. Use this time to connect with your partner.

As the conversation progresses, get a little more bold. Allow your hands to travel higher and remain longer. Do not touch any of her spots yet, but get fairly close. As her body begins to warm, whisper in her ear. Most women respond to being told what you want to do to them, word for word. Nibble at her neck while your hand grazes her pussy. The heat and moistness will let you know the degree of your success. If your woman's breast are sensitive, hold them, using your palms to rub her nipples to peaks. Make large circles around her nipples, moving slowly inwards until you have reached the inner parts of her areola.

If her body hasn't opened up to you yet, continue the torture. Maybe cup her pussy, squeezing lightly, or draw slow circles on her clit through her panties. Whatever she responds most to, continue to do. Once she is hot, you can proceed to oral sex or digital stimulation. The point is to wait until she's ready before any direct contact is made to her sex. I guarantee the outcome will amaze you.

Sinfully Yours,
Sinful.

Monogomy

Do you believe in monogamy? Is it possible to stay with your partner and not have lustful eyes? To stay committed and keep your peen/poon in your pants? In this world, its pretty hard to remain faithful without at least facing some type of bumps in the road. The sacredness of a relationship has been tainted.

At one point and time, if you told someone you were in a relationship, they would then move on and that would be the end of it. Now, "being in a relationship" means nothing. That message holds no fire anymore. People hear this and still pursue with the belief that they can change the person's mind. Even the sanctity of marriage has been challenged. The amount of people who cheat in their marriages and relationships has greatly increased.

Now where exactly am I going with this you might ask? Well, for starters, I have no problem with having an open relationship, if you can handle what may come with it. However, I would like to be told well in advance if thats what I am getting involved in. Too many people know that they cannot or refuse to stay committed, yet get into relationships and end up hurting their partners. If your dick has a mind of its own, let me know. Don't have me find out about it well into the relationship.

There would be a lot less problems in the world if we were all up front with our partners... Would you rather be told in advance that your partner has trouble staying committed? Would you still get with this person in belief that you could change them? Does anyone even believe in monogamy anymore? Give me feedback.

Sincerely Yours,
Sinful.

In response to Princess...

"princess said...

this makes me feel sooooo much better...ppl tell me that i should wait at least 3 mnths b4 i "get it in" with a guy but i can't wait three damn weeks! that damn steve harvey book got ppl trippin...who in hell wants to wait that damn long? shit, do i even want them around for that long??? and friends say "you should wait till the time is right".... when's that? i feel like if i'm hot and bothered and he's hot and bothered then that's perfect damn timing! i'm not tellin them shit else...

ur new twitter follower-
april michelle  "

My response:
Hun, if you don't take anything else from my blog, please understand this: You are the only one who lives your life. Stop asking others for advice, and stop listening to what other people have to say in regards to your life. They have not walked a mile in your shoes, and therefore have no idea of what you should and should not do.If you want to have sex with someone, why do you need approval from the next chick? Especially when 9/10 they aren't listening to their own advice. Do what you think is right. At least then, you won't have any regrets because you knew that you were doing exactly what you wanted to do at that point and time. However, PLEASE DO IT SAFELY. There are too many diseases out here that can and will kill you. Have fun, but be responsible about it.

Sincerely Yours,

Sinful.

I've been gone for a minute...

I know I've been gone for awhile. I was trying to decide if I wanted to continue doing this blog. I haven't received much feedback, so I'm really unsure about the future of My Sinful Secrets. Let me know what you guys think. I mean, why put my secrets out for the world to see, if no one actually sees them, right?

You Only Have One Life to Live

How many people actually live their life exactly how they want to? No inhibitions? We as I society are constantly reminding each other that we only have one life to live, but half of us do not take that into consideration.

LIVE LIFE ON THE EDGE.

FUCK WHAT OTHERS HAVE TO SAY

If you want to fuck the shit out of some guy you've just met, or girl for that matter, DO THAT SHIT! For once, just live life for you, and not for the other bitches and what they have to say. Too many people have regrets. 90% of the time they regret it because of what someone else might think. People, grow the fuck up.

Do what you want. Be what you want. Just do it safely... I prefer my safety measures in size Magnum please.

Sincerely,
Sinful.

MASTURBATION.

I find masturbation a stress-relieving technique that allows you to find new ways to please yourself. It's also a way to learn tricks to share with your partner to enhance the sex. Some people use their hands, I find that toys are the better option. There's nothing like visiting an adult store, and buying a new toy. The adrenaline builds up, my pussy throbs, and I can't wait to get home. Often times I begin using my new device as soon as I hop in my car. Each red light allows me to reach closer and closer to the orgasm I'm sure will come.

Bullets, dildos, vibrators... I have tried them all. Im really not into self penetration, but I'll use the hell out of  a vibrator. Those who shy away from masturbation are missing out on a sinfully sweet treat.

Lock the doors, turn out the lights, and allow your mind to run wild. Start out slow. Find what works for you. I'm sure that whatever it may be, it'll have your pussy trembling in no time.

Sincerely Yours,

Sinful.

Fucked.

Have you ever wanted to be fucked? None of that soft shit; just straight fucking. Hard, rough, toe-curling sex that leaves your mind numb and body breathless. The type of sex that requires no names whatsoever. Just a quick and simple dialogue, or better yet, no dialogue at all.

Mmm... my pussy gets what just thinking about it.

I'm a thick girl, and by all means can handle the dick. But there is nothing better than a piece of pipe that has you tearing up; fighting the water flow that will ultimately reveal your pleasure. Dick that's so good, you have no voice to moan out "Daddy, fuck me harder." You see, many guys believe that once you can get a girl to moan your name, or scream out "Daddy" during intercourse, you've got it made. But in actuality, making a girl speechless is the real feat.

Ladies, if you've never been fucked, you are missing out. My homework for you is to get your man, cuddy buddy, friend, whatever you have, and fuck the shit out of him. Leave your inhibitions at the door. There's only room for ultimate pleasure here. Look you man into his eyes, if he knows you well enough, he'll understand with just one look. If not, give him a two word request that should blow his mind. "Fuck me." Any real man will know what to do from that point.

By the way, send me your stories. I may end up putting them up on this blog. Don't be shy; I get off on that shit.

Sincerely Yours,

Sinful.