Monday, October 5, 2009

Foreplay


I don't think men realize the power of foreplay; how wet and excited they can make their partner just by having a little patience. Rub her a little, tease her a little, and you'll have her begging to be fucked. A few kisses and nibbles DO NOT equal foreplay. It usually takes some time and effort to get her hot and bothered. The key to successfully using foreplay to your advantage is understanding that it is a mental game.

Once you decide to initiate sex, do not let your partner know. Think of this as a game, where the element of surprise is your best weapon. Find her and begin a conversation. Make it light; as far away from the topic of sex as possible. While she's talking, find ways to touch and caress her body without making it seem as though you aren't listening. If she makes a joke, gently rub her thigh. Use this time to connect with your partner.

As the conversation progresses, get a little more bold. Allow your hands to travel higher and remain longer. Do not touch any of her spots yet, but get fairly close. As her body begins to warm, whisper in her ear. Most women respond to being told what you want to do to them, word for word. Nibble at her neck while your hand grazes her pussy. The heat and moistness will let you know the degree of your success. If your woman's breast are sensitive, hold them, using your palms to rub her nipples to peaks. Make large circles around her nipples, moving slowly inwards until you have reached the inner parts of her areola.

If her body hasn't opened up to you yet, continue the torture. Maybe cup her pussy, squeezing lightly, or draw slow circles on her clit through her panties. Whatever she responds most to, continue to do. Once she is hot, you can proceed to oral sex or digital stimulation. The point is to wait until she's ready before any direct contact is made to her sex. I guarantee the outcome will amaze you.

Sinfully Yours,
Sinful.

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